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Big Money

What did you learn about money growing up? What did you watch the adults around you believe, say and do with it?

What happened to money in your family? Was it scarce? Was it lost? Was it fought over? Was it used to prove something?

Finish this sentence without thinking: "People who have a lot of money are..."

Finish this one too: "If I had more money than I knew what to do with, I'm scared that..."

What do you believe has to happen for you to make big money? Do you believe you have to grind, sacrifice, abandon yourself, or rely on someone else?

Is there a belief in you that you can't do this on your own? Whose name comes up when you sit with that?

Where did each of these beliefs come from? Are they yours, or did you inherit them?

Which ones are you ready to be done with?

For every belief, narrative or piece of conditioning you've inherited, you're now going to give it back. Write: “I’m not ___. Their story doesn’t get to decide mine.”

Go back to the exercise from the video. When you imagined more money than you'd know what to do with landing in your account in the next hour, what did you feel in your body? Where did you feel it? What did it say?

Where are you looking outside yourself for your value? Which blueprints, frameworks, mentors or tools have you been handing your power to?

Where are you undercharging, or planning to? What number did you flinch away from, and why?

Where have you got 90% of the way and stopped? What happened in the void between the vision and the evidence?

How do you hold yourself on the days the money doesn't come? Are you the same woman on the big days and the small ones?

What do you do when money lands? Celebrate it, spend it as fast as it arrives, hide it, give it away, feel guilty?

Where is your financial thermostat set right now? What amount feels normal to you in a day, a week, a month? Do you want to turn it up?

Look around at your life right now. Who have you been being to create this? What are you grateful for in it? And what are you no longer available for?

Finish this sentence: "From today, I'm only available for..."

For each 'rock' you found, write down who you’d be being if it wasn’t there. How would she respond when the money lands? What would she charge? How would she hold herself through the void?

Every time you catch yourself thinking “that’s out of my reach” this week, stop and rewrite it: “That’s outside my financial alignment right now, AND it’s available for me.” That duality can co-exist, and the deeper you can hold the duality, the faster the first one dissolves.

Start with the next stretch. Choose something that feels exciting and a little bit big, but something your body can get behind. Then write it as a future memory, as though you've already lived it. Begin exactly the way I wrote Lizard Island: "How about that ___? How fcking incredible was that?"*

Then let these pull the details out of you:

Where were you? What did the space look like? What were the textures under your hands and your feet?

Who was with you? What did they say? What did you say to them?

What did you see, smell, taste and hear?

How did the money come to you? Where were you when the notification landed? What did you do in that moment?

Who were you being that day? How did you hold yourself? How did you move through the world?

What did you feel in your heart? Where did you feel it in your body?

How did you celebrate?

And now that it's normal for you, what does an ordinary day look like?